The Quiet Weight of Being a Visible Executive
By: Rachel Evers, MSN, RN, CNOR-E, CENP, CPXP, LSSWB Assistant Vice President of Nursing, Baptist Health Baptist Hospital
We often talk about the importance of visible leadership; being present, rounding on units, showing up for teams. And it isimportant. Visibility builds trust, creates connection, and reminds people that leadership isn’t distant or abstract. It’s human.
What we talk about less is how hard it can be.
As your scope expands, there’s a quiet tension that settles in. You want to know everyone. You want to remember names, stories, milestones. You want people to feel seen by you. But the larger your responsibility becomes, the more you realize that despite your best intentions, you will fall short. And with that comes a sense of disappointment – not just from others, but from yourself.
Executives are often expected to be confident, decisive, and unshakable. But we carry insecurities too. We want to be liked. We want to be trusted. And we know that sometimes the decisions we must make because we see the bigger picture, won’t be popular. We shoulder blame for outcomes shaped by complexity and competing priorities. That invisible burden comes with the role, and we carry it quietly.
There’s something deeply meaningful about being invited into the rhythm of a unit – rounding with purpose, walking alongside leaders who tell the stories of their teams. Stories of struggle, resilience, growth. Stories of people whose names I’m trying desperately to hold onto. Those moments ground me. They remind me why visibility matters and help me find common ground in spaces where I sometimes feel like the outsider.
Titles can intimidate people but here is a secret – sometimes I’m the one intimidated. Walking into a space where everyone is in sync, where relationships already exist, where I don’t want to disrupt but rather belong. I want to know every name, but my brain simply cannot hold the volume that comes with expanded scope. That’s a reality I am trying to make peace with – every single day. The best part of my job is being with my team, hearing about their barriers, their wins – it fills my purpose bucket.
So, when my leaders ask me to show up, I do.
Get in the dunk tank to raise money? I’m in. (please no photographic evidence)
Stop by the bake sale? Of course. (Here’s the money, you keep the calories.)
Round on a family? Absolutely.
Serve food at lunch? Yes.
Join a weekend walk? I’ll be there.
Dress up like an elf for two hours? No problem.
I put my insecurities aside. I smile. I show up.
Because maybe this time I’ll remember one more name. Maybe I’ll make one more connection. Maybe someone will feel just a little more seen.
At the end of the day, I’m not showing up with judgment or ulterior motives. I’m showing up because, like everyone else, I’m seeking belonging and community. Executive visibility isn’t about performance, it’s about presence. And sometimes, simply being there is enough.
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